How to Start?

Yesterday, I posted a video that pointed out the need for discipleship and evangelistic ministry in the church vs. programs and meetings.

Well, that’s all fine and dandy, but if one doesn’t know how to take the first step toward engaging people in Gospel-conversations, then it’s of no value.

I really think that people love to talk about themselves…thus the best way to start open discussion about spiritual things…is to ask intentional questions!

I thought it might be helpful to post this list that I’ve found helpful over the years in starting conversations with people from all different spiritual backgrounds…hope it’s as helpful to you as it has been to me!

  1. Where are you in your spiritual journey?
  2. In your opinion, how does one become a Christian?
  3. What single thing would you like to make absolutely certain you do (if at all possible) during your lifetime?
  4. How do you think a person can keep from becoming a workaholic?
  5. What do you think happens after death?
  6. What are you reading that is not an assignment or required by your work?
  7. How do you know you’ll go to heaven when you die?
  8. How are your growing personally?
  9. In a conversation with someone who has never heard about God, what would you say about Him from your experience?
  10. How would you describe your father and his impact on your life?
  11. Tell me about your mentor and his/her impact on your life.
  12. What do you think would probably surprise most people about you? Why?
  13. What is your greatest strength, and what are you doing to develop it?
  14. Why do people do what they do? What are the assumptions you make about people?
  15. How do you handle pressure? When the pressure is really on, what do you need from your friends?
  16. Has anything ever happened to you that was dramatic, personal or spectacular enough to cause you to be certain there is a God who is both infinite and personally caring?
  17. What do you consider to be two major turning points in your life?
  18. What is something you consider to be a great personal success? Why was it so significant?
  19. What is the key to maintaining balance in your life?
  20. What are 2 or 3 major truths upon which you have based your decision-making?
  21. Tell me about two of your life-long friends and why they have such an impact on your life. What made you choose them?
  22. Have you dealt with the questions? “How much money is enough, and what do I do with the rest?”
  23. How would you describe your mother and the impact she has had on your life?
  24. In your opinion, who was/is Jesus Christ?
  25. If you could know God personally, would you be interested?
  26. How would you define materialism, and how do you deal with it in your life?
  27. Do you think people are basically/innately good or bad?
  28. What have you found to be the best way of absorbing disappointment, rejection, distress and discouragement?
  29. When you get to heaven, what will be the first three questions you will ask God?
  30. If you were to inherit a million dollars today, and couldn’t spend it on your own enterprise or keep it for yourself, what would you do with it and why?
  31. What do you find most attractive about Christianity/the person of Christ? What do you find least attractive about Christianity/the person of Christ?
  32. Do you consider yourself a seeker of the truth?
  33. What is your spiritual background?
  34. Have you ever read the Bible?
  35. Have your views on religion changed since you started college? How?
  36. Have you ever discussed what Biblical Christianity is?
  37. Why do you think you feel the way you do toward Jesus Christ and his message of love and forgiveness?
  38. What is your philosophy of life based on?
  39. Do you believe what you’ve been brought up with?
  40. Why do you think Christianity isn’t relevant to your life?
  41. Where do you turn when life hurts?
  42. If Christ was who He claimed to be, how would that affect your life?
  43. When you go to sleep at night, do you ever have lingering thoughts or questions about Heaven?
  44. Do you reconcile bad things happening to seemingly good people?
  45. What are you living for? What do you value most?
  46. How do you resolve conflict?
  47. What is the focus and purpose of your marriage?
  48. If your questions could be answered in a way that would satisfy you, would you then believe in Christ?
  49. The Kennedy questions: First ask–“If you died today, do you know for sure you’d go to heaven?” Then ask–“If you died and stood before God and He asked you ‘Why should I let you into Heaven?’ What would you say?”
  50. Are there any specific things I can be praying for you?

Imagine the impact if we each tried out just ONE of these questions with a few people in our sphere of influence. Who’s up for the challenge?

I’d love to hear how it goes!!

One thought on “How to Start?”

  1. Wonderful list of questions. I am going to make a copy because they engage people well rather than slap something on them with the hopes they are buying it.
    I love you, Mom

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